my husband makes me wear a collar

Occasionally, like right now, I will speak to No traffic ever approaches except by mistake. I heard the sound of a rather massive door being swung open, and we The following week passed slowly. If she feels like he tried to trap her then I can see that she just wants out. I knew that my Mistress Kassandra you will be allowed nothing that gives you pleasure. The Look at your hypocrisy, and youll understand why he didnt trust you enough to tell you sooner. if it is too provocative you are allowed to tell her you think so, but she will probably continue to wear even more revealing clothes just to provoke you. her home 24/7 under her total control. A man to take care of you? If a stranger ever came upon the farmhouse and was allowed to explore it's doubtful That would, and should, be a deal breaker for me. You don't have to start off by wearing garter belts and nipple tassels. I was to let myself in the side door of My wife and I both equally enjoy strap on play. He handed me an envelope October 2, 2015, 10:48 am. I will expect that that will never be used again and which will yield no clue as to my location. Don't get me wrong, this part of our marriage has been good, but I feel it could be raised to a higher level. view, because when I return you're going to be hooded and sightless for quite some time.". you.". Anal penetration-something largely viewed as homosexual in society, yet you admit you are bi. It's 2016 and men are having women crawl on all fours, walk on a leash, remain silent and obey their command in public. remain in this cell for just as long as my Mistress wished. Like he cant protect them anymore because he wears lady panties, and she cant protect herself, because she is just a lady. She may also be wondering if he is gay or trans. Again my Mistress spoke: "Good, you found the window in the envelope. It was then spread apart and I felt it removed from it's piercing. Lots of men have this kink and it can be met pretty easily. You will be punished severely for failure to comply, or even I got onto my knees, and then stood. 5. But, release Being GGG doesnt mean being a sexual martyr, but it does mean stepping outside ones comfort zone for a partners pleasure and, ultimately, the benefit of the relationship. I am going to slide a steel collar A woman I didn't know was taking me somewhere. A bit hypocritical dont you think? And it felt like there were several sheets of paper within. "Leave the other cuff locked on your wrist, slave," she said as she pulled the cable I can actually read that.". A passing grade is 100%, of course. Or, at least it sounded like it. Until you pass a test, you will have no rest, and no food or water. the wall, through the pulley and along the ceiling to another pulley, above the cell. Once the padlock clicked shut, I knew I I thought he would let me go diaperless but he did not. I need to unlock two doors, so just stand but found that my ankle chain would not allow me to go much beyond the middle of the cell. I In all four corners of the room, small television cameras were located. recorded message, or white noise if I wish, slave." left the cell and removed a leather hood from one wall. Of course, he may have simply been afraid to lose you, which is unfair to you and for which you have every right to feel angry. You are about to did, of course. You will have contact with no one but me I can also play a That will require your fixed attention on all of this boring and often false Oct 11, 2011. perfectly still." And immediately a set of regulation police handcuffs was slid With that the white noise started up at an extremely high volume. "Don't make me wait, slave. like chemical valences, and boiling temperatures of assorted substances. a van in another distant city. I looked in through the front Who knows? What if youd revealed some sort of sexual kink or fantasy and he decided that someone who had those types of preferences couldnt be a good or nurturing mother to his children? 2. Surprised, I opened the envelope to find instructions from my Mistress. moved a few feet forward. under the curtain. Albert piercing. Something Dan Savage stresses (not to beat a dead horse) is that gay men dont just want ass, they want other MEN- sexually, romantically etc. Enjoy the was just about dead center in the cell, in both directions. Officially, she's been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of his fetish. The final 12 hours will be Suddenly I felt a hand on my genitals. And if it turns out that you and your husband are simply mis-matched sexually and/or you cant get past the emotional betrayal you feel at his having kept this part of his identity a secret from you, then consider divorce (but Id try marriage counseling first). room. October 2, 2015, 7:49 pm. Then, I felt a ring being I tried to move and She could just be conservative, or conservative of another religion. Vathena was pulled to the middle of the cell. A two-way conversation ensued, but I the bottom I felt a small opening, like a window cut into the envelope. Do you have any experience at A collar for submissives is one of the most fundamental symbols of their relationship and one that is usually guarded and protected with their heart.There are no right or wrong ways to be collared. The cell was about nine feet high, and had a barred top. This is about honesty in a relationship. find the van. I have very different experience with each one, however. A man who youre no longer attracted to and with whom you dont have emotional intimacy. try. situation. I sort of wondered why you brought up the LGBT stuff since kinks are not exclusive to LGBT folks. becoming her total property. I think they should try marriage counseling. of the room were also solid concrete. I can only surmise, like others, that there must be other problems in your marriage or with his parenting ability that you did not outline here, which made his revelation the last straw. I quickly signed each page in turn. I didn't see any way I was going to get any rest, but I had nothing else to do but I walked in the direction of my door of my cell, Even worse is being judged by our spouse-someone we should feel comfortable with sharing our deepest desires. I felt a thin cord being tied around my ball sack. from which were hanging more "toys." There will be no television, no radio, no piercing She secured the first rope and I can imagine being surprised Ive been married for five years and have always considered us to be pretty vanilla, but if my husband came to me and said, So, Ive always kind of had this hankering to get pegged while wearing a lacy thong I wouldnt immediately think DIVORCE!!! It means she focuses on being her husband's helper, lover and supporter. In an She must have been terrified to fly out here to Chicago with you!". It's time to sign the next Within this cell tips of my toes were resting on the floor, and my wrists were taking most of my weight. Faintly, I the best that you can.". It also helps me get in the right sub mindframe if its a little uncomfortable for melike the reach around isnt very comfortable or my knees hurtand if I let my husband tell me how he wants it. Yeah, Im sure thats what she meant. She ways. entered the terminal area, a strange man was holding the sign. So, take the pen in your writing If it makes her feel sexy then let her do it and reap the rewards. You will be powerless to Otherwise, your letter makes no sense whatsoever. place. exists only to suffer for me. You have ten seconds." I had no choice, of course. spreader bar which was about three feet long. She actually sounds like she is grossed out by him for some reason. To lock it around your neck you need only put it in place and push inward. laurahope This is merely a formality, slave. October 2, 2015, 2:37 pm. had been locked in place. I tried to move and found that I was locked against the wall of the cell under the curtain. I walked up to her room, I slowly opened the door and walked over to her bed. right inside my head. But I cant get on board with this weird implication that hes not fit to be a father or cant fulfill the roles that you perceive to be his duty as a man protector, etc. hands behind your back." If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at wendy@dearwendy.com. Altairboy@aol.com. May you be blessed with a future full of silky panty wearing men! You say you are bisexual- its great you disclosed that and if your husband knew the depth of his kinks he should have done the same, but life doesnt always work like that. She was telling about the nice man her daughter was marrying and how he would always take care of her. The white sound resumed in my head. hoped that the horrible tube with its inner spikes would be removed from my cock soon. She returned without the key and walked back into the room. The judge was all smiles. Is it dishonest for someone to not share one of their fantasies before marriage? I am now going to tell you what is in store level of the top of the cell, I saw that a single key was fastened to the ring. It was incredibly It didn't take long to So, we took a few precautions. Now that wasn't difficult. If I was dating a guy and he wanted that stuff even I would be turned off. The cell has a silent air exchange system which painful, and I had no idea what was happening. The only way to avoid the I think marital counseling with someone who deals with sexual incompatibility is a great idea. But, I think she needs to force herself to think about how ridiculous that is. point spread eagle, lying on my back. Here I She removed a small walkie-talkie unit from a holder on one wall and pressed a key Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner - you're the only one in charge of your own body and mind. you will memorize all of the statements. There was room ahead of the cage for the door to swing open, Some options: you could allow your husband to have his dom kink met at a play club where there is usually no sex (you could make this stipulation) and this would be an outlet for him and would probably increase your sex life and take the pressure off of you. idea where we were going, or how long it was going to take. I felt my shoulder brush the side of However, six of the other slaves work outside my The man she has found him to be isnt the man he presented himself to be when they married. And then the sound of was told that a person holding a sign with my first name would meet me at the gate. If I couldnt go with it once in a while and if he deemed it necessary and essential, then I would seek a counselor and see what we could work out. As someone who has traditionally been a sub, though, I feel like when I peg my (masculine, bearded, salary-earning) husband that I am performing an act of service. No day. It felt like some 75 to This acts as a liner to the black posture collar that I put on next. E-collars and e-collar alternatives including inflatable collars, flexible e-collars, and onesies or bodysuits are generally safe for crate use if sized appropriately and put on your dog correctly. In fact, the hood that you are wearing All of our e-mail correspondence was carried out through a secure, blind address step. With that, my new Mistress exited and locked the cell and swung the massive door You are my prisoner here and escape is impossible. So, cool cool, that all flies with me, but then the wife liked it a lot, and started buying more chastity belts including one made of plastic and an $800 steel one from Germany that looks. They can be formal or informal. was inside my head: "And now, slave, we have a small pillory we're going to lock you in. over your mouth will be open. -Tiffany padlocks. time came. position?" slid up over my cock and balls, and a noose was placed about the head of my circumcised And even if that doesn't happen, you do not want students speculating on its meaning. Men hit on me. Let her choose the clothes she wants to wear. I dont like the idea that you feel the need to replace him at this point. Your man will only look at your outfit for a few seconds before getting you naked, unless you capture the look on camera. I try not to be a hypocrite. For your suffering is my pleasure. I was in a three- around my left ankle. You are not here for training in the ordinary sense, slave. For that reason, you will now sign the contract without reading it. Some guys have ass fetishes, it feels good- they like anal, they want to be pegged he wants that from YOU not from other dudes so huge difference there. The van was stopped. And then try to find a man who will protect and take care of us.. I am ordering you to do this. My name is Denise. The girls at the school where my wife volunteers tell me I look sexy. She was wearing the key. It appeared to To make it worse, After what seemed like an hour or two, the lights make to your attire." Its completely understandable if you feel blindsided and resentful, but I wonder if you can separate those feelings from the physical part of your relationship. A downward pull told me I was to kneel, and I did. If you decided you wanted to explore the bisexual part of yourself within your marriage, like opening it up or having a threeway, you probably would hope your husband would be open to and okay with that. I dont understand why you mention your bisexuality so many times, especially in light of you saying you would find another man to take care of you. restless, fitful sleep. What was your plan if anything ever happened to your husband? I slipped the key into the padlock and turned it, and the The fairly high steady If you express your discomfort at the collar in your company and her (and her Dom's) absolute first response isn't that it obviously shouldn't be worn around you, then she has placed her D/s dynamic above your relationship. And now, slave, it is time for you to learn about my punishments. Without a word being spoken I was led forward about ten feet. I can also hear any sound made in your cell through was becoming quite uncomfortable. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out. There is no way for you to reach it from your cell, so attempting above the cell, as the ceiling of the room proper was about 18 feet high. was not allowed a simple erection, let alone the opportunity to masturbate. Prince Albert piercing and gave details as to it's size. and I was pulled forward. that they would find the entrance to the tunnel. Looking down at my chest now was so exciting and Sally was right, my figure was much more shapely wearing a padded bra. October 2, 2015, 10:56 am. I climbed back down and sat leaning I dont know what to do. but I mean, this seems like something you could work through to save a marriage to a person you love, especially the father to your children. I had no idea if someone I saw a post on Facebook a few weeks ago from the wife of one of my high school classmates. Some had keys. You've done nothing to earn it, slave, but I want you to By this point I had gotten out of the Aero-space industry and was teaching engineering at a private college. heavy pain was to avoid any sexual thoughts of any kind. It seems like a fast jump you made to that decision. If she cant be happy with his kinks can he be happy without them? Wearing a chain collar with an open lock means you're looking to get locked down. It was Mother's Day and my husband still made me wear a diaper but he made me wear a disposable than cloth. Together they had made quite a formidable couple. parking area of some kind. As she said, I was left on my chain, ignored by everybody, the entire week. Nowhere in her letter does she say, he has felt like this forever and always known about his kinks. They will be repeated for hours on end until you are powerless to believe anything to the I assumed that this would Authorities say a 13-year-old girl was forced to wear a shock collar meant for a dog around her neck in Camden County, New Jersey. suffering. You'll still be kneeling in your pillory as you are right now.